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Mum's the Word

Mum's the Word

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Mum's the Word

1996

0h 54m

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Offers a candid portrait of four French Canadian women who adopt surprising new roles as they approach their 50s. Leaving behind husbands and children, these women discuss the courage it took to embark on their quests for lesbian lifestyles.

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Directed by: Paul Carrière

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